If fear is at the foundation of your Christian experience, where does that leave you when you leave?

Written by: Christina Buckland
After I had my first article published, where I talked openly about my sister’s addictions and my understanding of...

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At one point, I remember you offered me a six-week program that you had designed, in which I could...

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I want an apology for how the Church taught me about purity

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If fear is at the foundation of your Christian experience, where does that leave you when you leave?
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Belief, Family, God, Leaving Christianity
Embracing the New Age practices I was taught to fear
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I want an apology for how the Church taught me about purity
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Parents, Here's What Not To Do When Your Child Leaves Christianity
Belief, Family, God, Leaving Christianity

If fear is at the foundation of your Christian experience, where does that leave you when you leave?

After I had my first article published, where I talked openly about my sister’s addictions and my understanding of death and God, I felt conflicting emotions. I felt tall and strong for being honest with myself to write and own my experiences and have them published under my own name. I felt an unfamiliar feeling of self-clarification from sharing my feelings that would undoubtedly hurt my family’s feelings, but doing it anyway for the sake of my own growth. I…

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Leaving Christianity, Sexuality & Gender

To the Pastoral Carer who Taught me to be Single, Celibate, and Cis

At one point, I remember you offered me a six-week program that you had designed, in which I could mourn my loss of love. One designed for women with “same-sex attraction”.  A program through which I could express grief over the fact that I would give up my ‘desire for a romantic relationship’,  and find joy in the Jesus I was being presented with. I think it was supposed to be cathartic? 

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